Who is Kim M?

Note: I was not apart of the group until Mar 12, 2021 and was removed April 13, 2021. There were some remaining posts in the group when I arrived, but frankly not much.


Who is Kim? It is a question I have asked.

One I think you should too, if you are following this.

January 3rd, 2021 Kim M creates the Facebook group called Victims of Matthew Good.

The user account is blank so you can’t garner any public info, it is clearly a fake account. I don’t even know if the name is real.

But it has Matthew Good’s exact birthday listed on it. That is bizarre.

Kim M‘s first post on January 4th 2021, said:

I am a victim of Matt and him convincing me I wanted to do things sexually that I never did. I was lied to and manipulated. If you want to speak out about it, I have your back. I will listen.

That was it.

It sounded eerily a lot like what Hayley’s statement would be in her Instagram post exactly one month later. One point that always kept coming up, for me, was that if a crime had been committed it should be reported to the proper authority. Having watching the Jian Ghomeshi trial in 2016 – it was clear to me – those women lost the case due to talking too much, to each other and the media. Any claim against Matthew Good by anyone involved in the Facebook group would be completely available to be used against the women.


January 11, 2021

You can see Kim’s comments on this post. Kim M is very angry and will not back down. Apparently someone felt threatened by the legal ramifications? Of note, the user “Kay” asks if someone was threatened but no one answers. It appears that user was also removed and not allowed back in to the group according to the Activity Log.

I think this post also explains why a large portion of the stories that have surfaced in screenshots no longer existed in the group. There was a lot that went down before I arrived at the movement‘s party.


January 30th, 2021 – PUBLIC FACEBOOK ACCESS

Kim M posts the comment below noting she will open up the group to the PUBLIC and expose whatever was left by that point to anyone asking to join. She warns the all the group to delete or go anonymous because she was going to let everyone in.

And let them in she did.

When I arrived in March there were 103 members. Far more than the 25 or 40 alleged women that Hayley M said there were accusing Matthew. So who were all these lookie-loos? Allies? Fans? Who knows!


February 5th 2021

This post by Kim M a day after Hayley’s IG post accusing Matt Good of abuse – this shows the exact same info that Hayley M gave me via Messenger – privately. It is about who to contact regarding a news story. However in this screenshot on Feb 5th, 2021, Kim M is claiming to have spoken to Global News and ET Canada.

It is possible she asked to remain anonymous – but the news channels would have asked for a way to verify she was a legit person. No public statements has been made by any woman matching Kim’s description of events.


February 15th, 2021

Up until this date, the Facebook group had been The Kim Show – and I guess after a month and a half she decided to invite The Mermaid and Erin to be Admins. Raina removed her Admin assignment the next day, but Erin went on to implement lots of changes.

These were comments on a post in the group from February 15th, 2021 – as you can see, Kim M says she had sex and that’s when Matthew asked her for anal sex, and she said no – and then he yelled at her.

Yelled at her. Such an asshole. (Was that pun intended?)

So, in other words, she was having consensual sex with him, he asked for anal, and when she said no, he complained. What crime is this? Is a man complaining about not getting certain types of sexual positions considered abuse now? Was there more to this that wasn’t explained here.

She never described HOW he yelled at her, what was said, or if it was threatening. It was a vague statement, and I suppose yes, she doesn’t have to explain details to anyone, but wasn’t the point of the group to share?

Of note, Kim M posted multiple comments on the Feb 15th post made by Raina, sharing items, she claimed were sent to her by Hayley M.

Note the comments below she says “not mine” and “ask her if I can post more.”

Incidentally Hayley M joined the VOMG group for the first time (as shown in the Activity Log, the next day on February 16th, 2021. Unless she was all ready in the group under an alias prior.

So if Kim and Hayley were so tight, that Hayley trusted her with these screenshots, why was Hayley not in the group prior?

It could all be nothing nefarious, but looking at it from this point of view, it does seem fishy.

Specially when you consider that right after Hayley arrived, Kim disappeared.

Kim’s last action in the Facebook Activity Log was February 21, 2021.


Alert Status Red?!

April 12th, 2021 when I discovered I was the only one running the group, Erin told me that Kim M is an alias, that she didn’t know the real name of the person that created the group.

A group for women to share stories of alleged sexual abuse created by anonymous person?


No One Know Who Kim Is

When I posted in the group asking what to do – I was told the Kim M facebook user account had been hacked and no one knew who was using it. (You can read that whole ordeal in another post about the group!)

I suggested deleting the group as it seemed to be compromised.

Suddenly, after previously agreeing to remove the group, Hayley M claimed to know and be in contact with Kim M – also said that Kim was her real name and not an alias. So this becomes a fishy thing indeed.

In an early post Kim claims to be a teacher, and a mother of 2 children, and that she was pregnant in January 2021 when she started the group, but later had a miscarriage according to Hayley. (This is an important key to the story.) Hayley says the miscarriage was supposed to be a secret as not to upset the then pregnant Mermaid Raina.

I can imagine a miscarriage would be a horrible event to go through. It isn’t something to just lightly throw. Was Hayley lying about Kim’s miscarriage story. Was the story someone else’s? Or did another woman later on use the same excuse for her departure from the group.

In any case, Hayley told me it was the reason for Kim’s departure and absence from the Facebook group prior to March 12 – April 12, 2021 – the period while I was in the group.

From my conversations that began April 15th 2020 with Matthew Good, he doesn’t know anyone named Kim M or who this could be based on these descriptions – and believe me Matt seems to know who ALL of these women are and admits to having – consented to – sexual activities with almost all of these women. 

I concede, his memory could be crap, specially if that is an alias or a married last name, or he could be covering his ass, only he knows for sure. But, he has been ridiculously open with me about a lot of these women, so why not this one?


Who is Kim?

Hayley M was accepted by Erin into the Victims Facebook and joined on February 16, 2021 and within a week Kim’s activity completely stops. Could all be strange timing, but things like that stand out.

On / and after April 12th 2021, Hayley tells people Kim left because of a miscarriage. If true, that is very sad for the woman. It is an awful experience. I just have a really hard time believing it is truth, because it comes from Hayley and only from Hayley. But I also accept that Hayley could have been lied to by another woman running the show.

Who is Kim is a question I have asked.

Erin said she didn’t know. Erin said it was an alias.

The Instagram account in Kim’s name posted this in February on Hayley’s post and it is a screenshot shared widely. Her claim – he shamed her.

That’s it. Shamed her for not wanting to have anal sex. So he yelled at her, making her feel shame.

Is that really a REASON enough for a woman to create a whole FACEBOOK group called Victims of Matthew Good?

And how long ago was this alleged event? Because if Kim M is indeed married with 2 kids and was attempting a 3rd, one would assume some time has gone by since the alleged sexual encounter, or she cheated. (And if Kim is the same person as HorrorChocolate on Reddit – a person that tells the same story – it was at least 2011-2013 time frame.)

For the record I knew Phaedra (photo above) before all this news broke and have spoken to her directly – about her claims – and at her request made sure her story was not shared here – other than this one claim she publicly stands by as having happened.

Why I believe Kim is an alias, has to do with the events of April 12th of 2021 and because Matthew Good has said according to his knowledge, his ex-wife Raeleigh has never spoke to any other woman – the only person, he says, that Raeleigh claims she has spoken to – is Hayley. Again, this is coming from Matthew, and grain of salt.

So this post by Kim M claiming she spoke to Raeleigh means either Rae is lying to her ex-husband – or Kim is actually Hayley. Or Hayley is sharing information with other people… you can see why legally a lawyer would eat these stories apart. Any chance these women MAY have had at reporting these crimes have sailed because of all the sharing in that Facebook group.

But as Kim’s post about shows, they didn’t want jail time.

And when you get to the post about Sherri from Twitter – you will be asking yourself if it is Hayley aka Kim aka Sherri too… It is all so fishy!


Fishy Fishy

When the events of April 12, 2021 occurred, Hayley was the only one that apparently knew Kim and texted with her. And suddenly Kim was back in charge and accusing me of a lot of bunk.

Yeah, the account for Kim M had Matt’s birthday on it. Kim never responded to my message above, and never communicated with me again.

Erin said it seemed like a big misunderstanding, yeah those women misunderstood my intention that day, but I can understand the panic I caused.

Was I about to reveal the Wiz behind the curtain in this land of Oz of theirs?

If anyone ever figures out who “Kim” really is I’d love to know. If she is a real teacher and mom of two out there, I am actually completely open to hear her story, but this post sums up my only interaction with the account.

From the moment “Kim” was back in charge April 13th 2021 in the Facebook group, she was coming at me. Posting in the group about me. Me – who was a total stranger to her – remember she wasn’t in the group while I was there, and I had deleted my entire posts prior to the two about shutting the group down. Kim came at me full barrelled and half-cocked. The intensity of her attack on me, was stunning.


Behind the Curtain

April 13th, 2021 Hayley accuses me of being evil.

When I explain my actions, she says we have assigned a new moderator. I checked later and Hayley was now also an Admin. I explained that unblocking a banned person only allows them to apply to join again, it doesn’t add them back immediately.

Furthermore, literally hours earlier she had thanked me for sharing. Now she was saying I was victim shaming? It is something to behold. I just re-took these screenshots today January 4th, 2022. Our conversation is still in Facebook Messenger. I have nothing to hide.


Within minutes of Hayley wishing me all the best – this message from Kim arrived. It is the only message Kim ever sent me. This is the entirety of our interaction. I still have no idea who Kim is.

Also could she be Horror-Chocolate-224 on Reddit? And Sherri on Twitter?


THESE ARE MY EXPERIENCES

I am sharing what I went through – when I defended Matthew Good against the MeToo allegations – and I am sharing what I went through when also supported the women who he used over the last 25 years.

These are my personal experiences. With these women associated with the Facebook Group. With Matthew Good. With being someone in his life at many various points in the last 25 years. I am sharing what I experienced. I am sharing my knowledge. I am sharing my opinions.

These women went on to vengefully attempt to cancel me for the next month – merely for posting I no longer believed Hayley. They attacked my character. They slandered me in their group and online. They made fake accounts to leave endless comments of threats to me. I became their target.

Until I deleted my Twitter on May 4th, 2021 and deleted my public Instagram. I wish I could say that stopped it entirely but it didn’t.

This is my story.


Updated September 23, 2023 – Uploaded January 4, 2022