Regretful Groupies Matthew Good Used Women

If this were a podcast… I would play that old school song “it takes two to make a thing go right” as the lead into this post.

So it was bound to happen, Matthew Good as of February 4, 2022, has a few issues with the site.

Funny given that just weeks ago, he was saying we should do a podcast, which was probably a joke but still, thought it would be amusing to imagine this is a podcast, with a sound track.

Matt also asked me to add a forum to the site and I refused. He asked me to make him a Reddit account even. I told him he was a big boy and could figure out how to do things on his own.

In fairness, I have always offered to share his points of view on here – I wanted both sides to the story.

I have all our correspondence between April 2021 – February 2022.

Matt was telling me what he wanted people to know. I have included his few points, in some of my posts. I have shared what very little he had to say on various accusations against him.

Keeping with that fairness, here is some clarifying points he wants made now.

Ladies and gentlemen of the G.E.D. class of 1999, I have one piece of advice for you…

One thing Matthew Good is adamant about – he claims he never filmed any sexual encounters. Any woman that states such things happened are lying, according to him. His X-rated music video excluded.

Number two, he wanted me to know he never had sex with Raymi The Minx (a Blogger) and I think I was clear in the brief post that was about her (the post about Raymi is currently offline) that it was a rumour back then and I have never said they had sex. The main point I was making is – what was Raymi chirping in Hayley’s ear? So I think we are clear on that, we all ready agreed, there was no sex in the Champagne room.

The third point Matt wants you to know, was that Matt did in fact have to pay out a large sum of money to his second ex-wife Rae, but he references corporate contracts, so it was not just alimony. It was a lot of money, and financially that had to make him take a hit to the pocketbook.

Point is, why was he telling strangers, women, those sums of money?

Was he trying to impress women with the money? Why tell a virtual stranger via text you are paying such large sums of money to your ex? That is really the part that is questionable to me, not so much the sum.

Did he think women would only have sex with him if they knew how much money he was forking over to Rae? It is a weird pick-up line, and how can you claim someone used you for fame – when you used your fame to coax them into a sexual situation?

Or in my opinion, maybe he was looking for pity. In my opinion, Matthew Good likes looking for pity. He enjoys playing a perpetual victim. He is always issuing clarifying statements to walk back his blunders and misunderstandings. But it’s not his fault, he doesn’t know he does it, he is Naughty By Nature. I get it, I say shit and some times later think oh yeah, I better qualify what that meant – because I am a horrible monster. I mean look at this web site, what kind of monster publishes this!

You Down with O.P.P.?

I suppose my vague statement on Reddit, that his financial woes are his own fault, should have been elaborated on. On his Instagram, up until he deleted me off February 1st, he had repeatedly, as in multiple posts, made the claim that if he doesn’t start getting money coming in that he would be living in his car by Summer. (This is end of December 2021 and into early 2022.)

*Matthew IG post he asked a fan to share on Reddit*

How does a successful musician in Canada end up in such dire financial situation, if he was court ordered to pay out his ex-wife such sums of money, the courts would have deemed him financially capable of such sums, based on his financial history. Something had to go terribly wrong.

Covid and no touring – I am sure means a lot less income – but to be on the verge of homelessness?

I am surprised, he has no savings, no means to get thru this situation. I question what he spent his money on, to end up so worried about living in his car. Even if the loans he had are crashing in, and he truly is on the verge of having to sell the townhouse his parents willed to him… what about his brother and sister-in-law? Why wouldn’t they help him out? I am sure he has at least one friend with a couch. I mean that statement “living in my car” is so drastic and dramatic and why was he telling that to anyone, specially his fans!

Honestly it isn’t really any of my business.

So why is Matthew Good telling these things to the world? It is none of our business what he paid his ex or that he is a shitty financial planner. It sucks, Covid has killed more people thru suicides, drug overdoses, and poverty and starvation then whatever ICU numbers are. He isn’t the only one out of a job! Frankly he isn’t going to end up living in his car, and for him to make light of that, is disgusting to me, when there are people way WAY worse off than him in these times.

Nor is such a pity inducing statement, something his fans should be sharing, at his request, on Reddit to other fans. He shouldn’t be posting a lot of the things he does, on his Instagram because he doesn’t filter himself. As he stated to me, he needs to stop posting late at night while drunk.

And as I said to him, in my last correspondence to him: “Have some pride left in yourself. And stop pissing in your mother’s garden. Pull yourself together man!”

I am right – of course.

If you’ve been dating a man for four months, and you haven’t met any of his friends, you are NOT his girlfriend!

Finally, his main beef with this site, is with my opinion of him that he is a sex addict.

For weeks he has been telling me I am wrong about that. That his psychiatrist and him have determined he isn’t a sex addict. His psychiatrist says he isn’t a narcissist.

Okay so Matthew Good says, his psychiatrist says, he isn’t a sex addict. I wonder how really in depth that topic was discussed. But I get it, in the Bipolar inner workings of his mind, that probably isn’t the worst of whatever is inside his brain.

But that was his main complaint. Not the accusations against him. He was angry about my opinion of him. In our final text conversation Matthew Good claims that all these women had ulterior motives for why they used him.

Women USED Matthew Good

Yes, he thinks these women (and I too) used him. His words: “And you know, maybe that’s something that’s left out in a lot of your testimonies. That convenient parts are left out – the parts where a lot of people were in it for their own reasons, and used me just as much.”

Now I understand, being famous makes people treat you different. They want to be with the rock star and be with someone famous. Surely there is that aspect, for sure. These women consented to the sexual adventures they had. They certainly did. And they did so, purely because he is Matthew Good, Canadian rock star.

But from what I can see, Matthew Good instigated almost all the contact.

He picked them out, plucked them off the social media, because of their good looks, or their sexual nature. Matt contacted them. He pretended they were special, often telling them that “he never does this.”

He used his stardom, that fact, and that these women idolized him. He used them. He lied consistently to these women. He lied about being in an open marriage. He lied to his wives. He lied to Hayley. He lied about so much it is a staggering amount of beautiful bullshit.

So yes, even if these young women were deluded in believing they were special, it isn’t hard to see why they would be! Even if their motive was to be with their “idol” and the “rock star” and not necessarily to be with him as a person – he used them for it.

It takes two to make it outta sight!

Me Myself and I

Song change up for the imaginary podcast, please hit play – This video is Queen playing during LiveAid in 1985. That’s fame. We have to bring this down to reality.

Matthew Good, wasn’t famous on a Freddie level. Thankfully.

Emgee now thinks I was pretending to be his friend because – I won’t blow smoke up his arse. Fair enough. I think he needs to reanalyze that, but not much I can do, when he think everyone is using him.

I am using him too apparently.

We are all just users. I truly don’t dismiss that, it is human psychology.

But I made a public statement defending Matt, and stand by it even now.

I feel he needed to address this matter, but he felt otherwise, and it is his choice.

It is still my opinion that he needs to apologize for using these women. Yes, many of them are clutching their victim cards, and crying over situations that they willingly went into, many choosing to believe they were special, and it is nice to feel special. Hindsight breeds bitter regret sometimes.

But he used them for his own sexual satisfaction. Maybe more, maybe it was a fragile ego, that needed to bed hundreds of women. Maybe there is some misogynistic aspects to his personality? I ask these questions, for myself.

What does all this say about me.

I am not his therapist. I am not his mother. I am not his girlfriend.

I was his friend.

As complicated as that was. I was genuinely his friend. Or so I thought.

I have merely offered my tough love opinions here.

Anyone is free to accept it, or offer their own, based on the public information that it is out there. These abuse allegations were brought to the light before I arrived at the party. I am just trying to make sense of something – and why?

What purpose could I have to interject myself into this?

(He asked me this question!)

I am one of the women MG has used.

25 fucking years of history between us but I just interjected myself here?

I – myself – am trying to understand what the fuck I did and why I did it, and why I hurt people along the way. If I haven’t been abundantly clear with, this is all about me. Me! ME! ME!

I am focusing on my opinions, on my behaviour and interactions in this life with other people, within and often outside of, societies moral facade. It’s hard for me to reconcile why a society that claims to shun promiscuity and upholds monogamy and the vows of marriage, has such a high rate of affairs and divorces. That leaves a big grey area on what society accepts.

Morals become highly subjective.

I – myself – am trying to forgive myself for the people I hurt and the things I did in my years. I have written a lot about myself in this site. It has been a journey for me. For me to understand why I am the way I am. I even offer my apology here on this site! I am trying to become a better being.

Free will is a crazy ride.

I suck at apologies, and I know, I will continue to fuck up in life, learning as I do.

I am reconciling my life, for me. I am forgiving myself. Every day.

You are an important part of the computer.

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