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Disclaimer:
Hayley seems to have moved on in her life after these events. I wish her well in her future endeavours. This post is an account of the relationship she had with Matthew Good, and the damaging events that transpired after her public MeToo statement. I hope she has healed.

Best Wishes from B

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In American Football a Hail Mary is “a long, typically unsuccessful pass made in a desperate attempt to score late in the game.” If you don’t know who Canadian Rockstar Matthew Good is, you will have never heard of his ex Hayley M – but she made a few news headlines in February 2021.

This was her public claim in February 2021 :

(Screenshots from mgtimesup.tumblr.com – content creator unknown.)

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2018 – An Instagram Timeline

I certainly hadn’t ever heard of Hayley M until she started popping up in MG’s social media in 2019, as his 17-years-younger arm candy with giant breasts on display. Her second set – her purchase, her choice on the size. Matthew told me he spent a week, in a hotel, with her, so she could to recover from her surgery. 

Hayley M’s Instagram started in 2015 and began like most anybody’s IG would. Being a young 20-something, travelling, record shopping, and in August 2016 becoming a mom. There were plenty of public Mom and baby pics. I suspected Hayley’s now ex-husband (Andrew) had been highly edited out before I got there. The posts of happy baby life ended in July 2017.

Hayley M claims the relationship with Mr. Good started in the beginning of 2018, at least, I am guessing – she says they were together 3 years. It ended in December 2020. Maybe it started in 2017?

I honestly never firmed that up, since it started as an affair on Hayley’s part, I can understand the shadiness. She was cheating on her husband – according to Matthew.

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2019 – The New Girl Does Your Show

By May 2019, a transformation has happened as she returns to IG. She has chopped her hair and gone red head, very much looking like Matthew’s ex-wife number 2 in that way. There were pictures of Hayley and Mr. Good on vacation together in Italy, in June 2019.

• At the original posting of this page (in January 2022) you could still find the traces Matthew in her IG. Like the post of her boasting of singing on his song Beauty (Feb 2020 post), or the post praising dads, including a picture of Matt Good and Matt’s dad, but oddly not her own child’s dad Andrew, on Father’s day 2019. Photos of Mr. Good’s kids in 2019. Pictures of her at his mother’s piano. Pictures of Matt’s mother.

• Hayley still wanted that connection there – as proof – while she publicly accused him of abuse.

• You could still see his comments on some of her photos, like the gem of them talking about having sex on his parents mattress – for example – that was until Mr. Good deleted his IG on April 30 2021.

One post that strikes me as interesting is August 16, 2019. Hayley posted a painting she did, and described how she “suffered debilitating postpartum depression which was triggered from undiagnosed cyclothymia and a traumatic birth.”

Cyclothymia is a mild form of Bipolar.

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Still A Groupie

Even if Hayley was depressed after having a child, she still defines as a groupie. Matthew Good picked her out, I am sure, his usual propositioning of his female fans. He made her feel special, used his usual MO and she is bought into her specialness. Her story is the same as so many of the women in the VOMG Facebook Group.

Hayley willingly met Matthew, and according to him, within the hour of first meeting him in person, had sex with him. She willingly cheated on her husband – to be with Matthew Good.

I would never deny that they had a public relationship some time AFTER that – how it developed doesn’t particularly matter – aside from the hypocrisy regarding the cheating.

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By Spring 2019 Hayley was his public girlfriend.

She was in his life, in his career, in his family’s life and that meant something.

I don’t doubt for a moment the hurt she felt at ending the relationship – no matter who ends it or how a relationship ends – even when it is co-dependent and mentally torturous – it still fucking hurts and that hurt is real.

Trauma-bonded relationships are a bitch. I know.

And it hurts for both!

Then on Remembrance Day 2019 Hayley posted about PTSD. Almost like this whole IG thing had been a research project for what was to come. Oddly again, even after the MeToo accusation, she seemed to leave up the pics of her with Mr. Good’s children. Hayley always claimed to be protecting the kids, but I don’t see how airing such news with unfounded evidence was in anyway protecting them.

Continuing to look through Hayley’s IG before it was purged, it was seemingly normal, nice paintings she made, and of course pictures of the Good family. She had a picture of Eileen (Matthew’s mother) on there from November 2019, which looks to be when they filmed the music video for Matthew Good’s song and single “Sicily” and Hayley was in the music video with Matthew.

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2020 – They are clowns

While looking over Hayley’s Instagram, after the accusation, she still had photos of visits to the Good house, the passing of Robert (Matthew’s father) and a photo of shoes as she rushes to fly to be by Matt’s side on her birthday – which is the day Robert died in 2020.

Then later in March 2020 The Covid came. The world shut down and music ended.

These following images were pulled from Hayley’s pubic Instagram account in 2021 – they show Matthew Good’s family and home and the ring.

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2020 September

Then in September 2020 during a pandemic and incidentally the month she proposed marriage to Matthew and convinced his mother to give her a ring to use to do it – Hayley goes full on near nudes on her Instagram.

According to her tags at the time, the nakedness meant she is a model.

Not a real model. Hayley has nothing on Jenny-Beth Matthew’s 1st ex-wife. Jenny was a beauty!

Hayley is not the runway or magazine fashion type, still quite pretty, but just your usual Instagram version that are a penny a dozen. No one paid Hayley to take off her clothing she did it for the empowerment.

And I am not slamming her – she can get naked all she wants, her body, her choice!

Nakedness does not offend me and I have been naked in some photos out there in the world. Naked pictures of myself may still exist in the world. Meh. We are born naked. Bodies are beautiful. Sex is a wonderful thing.

Self confidence in your Sexuality is amazing.

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I just find the timing of Hayley’s actions all a bit suspect.

That is and was my only issue.

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Wants a Music Career

Hayley also claimed to be a ‘producer’ of music. She made beats in her living room with (by her account) $6,000.00 worth of beat making gear that she had purchased over the years. I don’t know, but the term producer is a stretch. I guess she “produces” the music in the sense she makes it, and edits it in her living room, but to me the title “Producer” means way more than that. I won’t knock it too much though. It isn’t my issue.

The unreleased album with Matt that will never be, is a whole other post topic. 

In fairness, in September 2020, Hayley entered the Canada Hottest Women Contest – by posing in her lingerie or bathing suits. She didn’t win the contest. The winners from 2020 were announced in December 2020 on the contest Instagram. But it is something to note that, to enter the contest, all you have to do is pay CAD $2,850 + taxes for an 8 hour shoot. 

“Leverage our contest for your brand, product, or service. Influencer marketing done right can help quickly grow your business. Learn how our contest can help your brand.”

– Canada Hottest Women Contest

Heck, if nothing else, Hayley was trying to make herself into a brand.

She is/was marketing herself. Marketing in a most unusual way but it is very clearly marketing. Oddly though, all she had was her IG. Her IG is a jumbled mess though, certainly not professional at all. 

I try to keep certain things separated, like my personal IG is personal. My public items shelter my personal life as much as I can. Hayley wasn’t doing that, and I found that hard to reconcile.

For instance, when Hayley accused anyone of harming her daughter, it seemed obtuse, when she had publicly used pictures and videos of her daughter in her public Instagram, posted right beside her near nudes. Where men and women would post sexual comments.

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2020 Instagram Model

NOTE: The following section used to contain a series of screenshots that were taken while Hayley’s Instagram account was public in 2021. Matthew Good had asked me (and I suspect others) to watch her account while he contemplated suing her for defamation in Summer of 2021. Yes I have the texts to prove that he was claiming that to me. I have removed these screenshots since she removed the content from the public eye.

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Maybe she’s born with it, maybe it’s Cyclothymia.

In September 2020 Hayley starts posting the sexual pictures. Her IG goes from mom, to Baywatch – to fetish sexual lingerie in the blink of an eye. (I have removed the screenshots to show this transformation.)

So remember I said it was the timing that was suspect to me – the same month – September 2020 – that she proposed marriage to Matthew Good – she posted the near naked pictures.

Did Hayley do it all as a plan to spring board her own desire to be in music?

Incidentally she released a video of her own song on YouTube in August 28, 2020 – the same time she starts posting “Illicit” photos of herself as promotion. What was her true intent with Matthew Good.

This interview with Bondzee is currently on YouTube and in that interview after talking to her for an hour, at the 59 minute mark, Hayley’s video for the song she made called “Illicit” plays in full. Also of note, in the interview Hayley explained she removed her online content prior to the public knowing she was Matthew Good’s girlfriend. So that sorta could explain her lack of online presence beyond Instagram.

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2020 September

Hayley proposed marriage to Matthew unexpectedly. She convinces Matthew’s dying mother to give her one of her rings to use to propose to Matthew.

2020 November

Matthew Good’s mother dies. Hayley is there, and posts a photograph of her hand with engagement ring on it, holding Eileen’s hand. (See image above.)

A few days after his mother’s death, Matthew Good is texting a random woman, attempting to have her come to his home for sex. This woman or someone associated with her – sends those texts to Hayley.

Notable is, days after that touching-hand-holding-ring-showing-off-photo, memorializing Matt’s mother’s death… for Hayley it is right back to the sexy photos on IG.

Hypocritical because she slammed Matt for immediately texting this other women for sex, after his mom’s death. 

Yet Hayley had no problem moving on to posting near nudes, immediately after tragic events, like her best friend died of cancer in 2021, and days later it’s a post of Hayley’s naked butt.

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Addicts always go straight to their drug for relief in hard times or to deal with trauma. 

Hayley’s drug – seemed to be superficial affection garnered by the male gaze or the rush of feeling that Heroic Delusion garnered through her posts about saving women and empowering women via Instagram posts. In fact, neuroscientists have compared social media interaction to a syringe of dopamine being injected straight into the system.

Matt’s addiction – meaningless, often pornographic sexual discussions and/or actual sexual encounters, often with strangers, making it more thrilling.

(I discuss my addictions in other parts of this site. Addictions can make people do un-rational dysfunctional things.)

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Long Distance

In multiple texts, to different woman, that have surfaced, Mr. Good repeatedly told the women that he was propositioning, that he had no intention of moving out to Ontario and nor did Hayley intend to move to BC, so the relationship in his eyes was a dead end.

This is a snippet of our conversation after his dad passed away March 2020, and here he states the difficulty of the distance between Hayley and him.

Hayley openly admitted that she forgave Mr. Good when she caught him cheating at least once prior in the relationship.

Maybe because she was free to have sex with other women? According to that conversation, clearly in his mind they had an Open Relationship.

Or so he said.

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2020 November – The Hail Mary Plan

Afterward, November 2020 Hayley posted some very damning videos that seemed to outline her revenge plot on her IG, which she promptly removed. Hayley apparently even shared the plan she had made with others. I personally haven’t seen it but am told it existed.

Damn shame no one has a record of these things... or do they?

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2020 December – Get Over It

Hayley gives Matt an ultimatum. Pick her and her kid, and get over everything.

A month earlier Matt’s mom had died, in March his dad had died, he couldn’t tour or make money because of Covid – and he was just supposed to get over it.

I mean clearly, she was going to forgive him of texting a woman days after his mother’s death, IF he just got over everything and picked her damn it.

Why didn’t he just do what SHE wanted. But that’s the thing, people don’t just get over everything.

You can read an email Hayley alleges to have been sent from Matthew Good to her in December 2020, she posted it on her once public IG. Of course, it isn’t a happy email, but you get the gist. You can find this on the Tumblr website created by an unknown person.

They fought all December 2020. Matt told me he ended up in hospital briefly from the stress.

But that was just the beginning.

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Any bit of research could dig up his prior rumoured skeletons. If Hayley broke up with him over the cheating or even just his attempts to cheat, in December 2020 – again it seems odd timing.

Why then?

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2021 – The Era of Victimhood

On the 3rd of January 2021 a Victims of Matthew Good Facebook Group was started by a user name Kim M.

Another secret Facebook group was also created, rumoured to be called The Triggered Masses. I don’t know for sure. You could buy stickers that say that for your mug though, one of the Hayley followers was selling them at the time in 2021. Because why not profit off of your alleged victimhood. I stood corrected, the woman that made the stickers would give you one if you showed her you donated to a charity. Sorry for the error.

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February 3rd, 2021

Hayley posted to IG claiming to have been abused. (See the claim posted at beginning of this page.)

Hayley also asked everyone to put pressure on Warner Music. So even though in the original statement (at the top of the page) she says she isn’t sure if the album is happening, here she is clearly aware that he was dropped by Warner and putting pressure on the label to make a statement.

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February 11th, 2021

A statement from Warner Music drops announcing they had canned Mr. Good from their record label, and several news media outlets reporting the alleged abuse popped up the next moment.

February 12th, 2021

Matthew Good, on his website, vaguely, publicly denies ever abusing anyone.

Hayley later publicly alters the tone, saying she was mentally abused. Claiming now that she suffers from PTSD from their relationship. 

Then Hayley publicly claimed to be speaking on behalf of other “victims” of Mr. Good’s abuse. The number seemed to always be going higher as time passed.

Given the amount of women Matthew has slept with, I don’t doubt there are more sexual encounter stories, but they are they stories of abuse? Or just consensual sex with regretful groupies.

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March 12, 2021 – Hey Girl

Hayley asked “victims” to contact ET Canada with their story. Hayley gave out the contact emails, as you see in her message to me above in March 2021.

Hayley also tells me that a woman has committed suicide because of Matthew.

• Naturally in April 2021, I did ask Matthew Good about this claim. A family friend had tragically ended her life, the woman had sent letters to every one she was close to which included him – and his mother Eileen too. So this was prior to November 2020. If this is who Hayley was referring to, it was an outright lie to suggest this women died because of Matthew Good.

The claim that someone had died because of Matthew Good was never proven, no name ever provided by Hayley to back up her claim.

• Incidentally later in 2021 Hayley posted a video of her being sad, stating that yet another woman had killed herself over the bullying that she had been receiving due to all of this MeToo business. The video immediately disappeared. No woman was named. Nothing further came of it. So what is real?

• Also, for the record, to date, no story has been published by ET Canada or any news outlet.

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April 12th, 2021

Hayley told me she was disappointed that ET Canada didn’t publish the 8 stories they were given.

Having seen some of the stories, I can see why. No reputable news outlet will touch such gossip. From the ones told in the FB Victims group, and the few that talked to me privately – I can say most of the women seem to tell the same tale. Matthew Good texted me that ET Canada had thought the stories were unprintable.

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They were Matthew Good fans.

This is where I agree, that Matthew Good acted like a dirtbag in my opinion. He would roam around his fan base, and find young women that appeared to adore him, or appeared sexual, or even just told a sexual joke, and then chat them up. Eventually he would suggest they have sex, act like he was joking if they didn’t seem to take the sex suggestion well. Then if they still chatted to him, he’d talk to them more, and that alone made them feel “special” – because he was their hero or idol.

I get a young woman might not have the experience to understand the way male minds operate, specially at 19 or 20 or 21… But when a man starts talking sex to a woman, you gotta know it is for one thing, and one thing only – right?

I mean, all men have that move, to make you feel special. Tell you that you are so hot, so sexy, so different, so smart… so whatever you need to hear – to get you to have sex with them. That’s the male mind. They want sex.

It is up to women to determine whether men get that sex. I know that sounds sexist, but men chase.

Never be a woman that chases a man.

Sadly your value in a man’s eyes will be determined by how quickly that chase ends. Which is why men so often slut shame women, because they know society thinks that if you have sex too soon – as a woman – that makes you morally less than those that wait.

Personally I say fuck those morals, they are a head fuck on our current society.

If I – as a woman – think like a man, and act like a man, and treat men like the whores they are – I am still the one society shames. It’s fucked. But point is…

A lot of the women refused the offers – Matthew Good was rejected, denied and refused, repeatedly some times, but these women still believe that that is harassment or attempted ‘grooming’ and are offended a man would want to have sex with them.

First off, yes, it is eww, that the man is so hard up that he had to use his fan base to find sex, and that he tried multiple times with some of these women. It is gross that he thought that his social media was a pick up bar after midnight. There were women that would have sex with him – once – and afterwards immediately regret it. Many went back for more, then regretted it more later.

Matthew Good isn’t a nice person in that regard, once the sex was done, he rushed these women out the door, or he himself rushed out the door.

They serviced his need. And yes that would feel like repulsive behaviour.

But is he any different than the Tinder dates that happen these days? Truly, are we going to MeToo every guy or gal that chucks you after a one night stand, or ghosts you after a date? People can act shitty in life. That is reality.

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But regretting having sex doesn’t remove the consent.

Were some of these women duped by Matthew Good into believing they were special? I have no doubt they were, either by him intentionally – with his “poor-me” stories – or duped by themselves – for perceiving the situation differently than the reality that it was.

Did he promise any of them more than that one time sexual experience, I highly doubt it. But only they know the truth of what was said, in seriousness.

In fact – “I’m not looking for anything serious” was his usual parting line. It is shitty behaviour. Deplorable. Perverted. But completely legal.

Men and women have been doing that dance of deception for a long long time. This is nothing new. Neither party was being real. Neither party was being truthful, each with their own reasons and motives. His was sex.

The women have to answer – what was their motive with the rock star?

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2021 April

As you can see below, in April 2021 it was clear her intent was to get Matthew Good removed from the world. She directed the group to email CMHA to get them to release their statement, then she posted this, about going after the TedTalk and another member was contacting former and current band members and music associates, and anyone that followed Matt’s social media in an attempt to get them to unfollow or disown him.

That is cancel culture.

Hayley denies it of course, she claims she never told anyone to pressure Warner Music, but she did, she says she didn’t get women to pressure CMHA and as you can see below, it was not enough for her – she wanted more. Revenge is an awful demon.

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Regret is NOT Rape

Regretting sex – after the fact, like while walking out the door or days or years later – doesn’t make that sex suddenly nonconsensual.

I am pretty certain we have all done things that after we regretted, but we don’t blame HÄAGEN-DAZS for coercing us into eating a tub of their ice cream and having dairy belly all night after. I am sure most of us have spent an evening hugging the porcelain bowl but we don’t blame Tequila and say it groomed us into drinking that much, or that our buddies forced us to down those shots. 

That lime didn’t suck its self.

Regret is regret. Own your part.

These ladies willingly consented to the sex with Matthew Good.

But he lied to them!

Maybe he lied to them – maybe if they knew he wasn’t married they wouldn’t have?

How hard would it have been to figure out if he was or wasn’t married?

Many knew and did it anyway.

They were fans!

After he contacted them – they could have googled that shit.

Did he lie about the status of the marriage yah probably, if he did or didn’t – these women could have found the truth if it mattered to them that much.

Most knew the deal, that he was married. Most wanted to feel special, and fucking a rock star made them feel special. They need to own that.

Would you believe you were “the one” and had a future with a man that asked you to lick his ejaculation off of a plate?

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I am sure A LOT of humans have had sex they regret too.

You hope for the best when you get jiggy with someone, but sometimes, they disappoint you. Small dick, funky tastes, premature ejaculation, unable to find the clitoris, or it just didn’t go well in some other way… like say a panic attack causing you to vomit on their carpet. Just saying.

Not every lover is going to be a super star in bed every time.

People with sex addictions typically have a lot of partners over time too.

Only difference here is Matthew Good is a well enough known musician in Canada that a gang of regretful groupies can set out to cancel his career. In an attempt to stop him from finding anymore groupies to have sex with.

That was the motive.

They repeated it over and over, they wanted to out him, so he couldn’t pick up any more fan girls. Maybe that is noble, I don’t know. I get it. I get doing something stupid and wanting to warn others not to do it too.

Thing is I guess, having been there and done that, I know the end result. Even with the progressive times we live in, you can’t save the stupid.

Regret afterwards doesn’t equate to rape, I have to say it over and over.

I think it is quite something that the MeToo movement and cancel culture has whittled down to lower tier rock star groupies regretting being hit on, or regretting having blown a womanizer’s dick on a tour bus. But here we are. Welcome to the jungle baby. It gets worse here every day.

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2021 July – ONLYFANS is Empowering

As I was beginning to compose Regretful Groupies I should have bet money on Hayley starting an OnlyFans account. When I suggested it was coming, Matthew Good said no way she would, she has an image to uphold!

I would have won $50 from him. Instead I spent $20 on this URL.

Hayley decided to put up a OnlyFans account in July 2021 – and she defended it with why-not-shrugs.

Frankly she didn’t even have to explain it. You do you in life. If she finds it empowering – why bother explaining.

I guess that $15 subscription from her few hundred followers helps her recoup some of the tens of thousands she spends paying for the photos?

I guess 2021 was all worth it.

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2021 November – Gold Tides

But whatever happened to her independent album of hip hop music called Gold Tides? Wasn’t that suppose to drop in the summer of 2021?

I remember those posts in April 2021 when he released the 3 tracks from the canned album, about how she was making NEW music and why wasn’t he.

Hayley went back on that Bondzee’s YouTube channel in November 2021. In her interview she claims the album Gold Tides is too personal and painful for her to release. So that explains why she didn’t release it.

It is a stunning thing to watch all this unfold.

By October 2021 Hayley has a new focus.

Saving you from vaccines.

She is done saving groupies, now she is saving you from the New World Order.

I don’t know but don’t they tell you not to do any kind of medical or cosmetic stuff for a certain amount of days after the jab? Like 2 weeks? Hold my coffee… Google time. Oh look – lots of sites saying swelling has happened when women have injected their face just before or just after. So Hayley could have known. Could have asked. Could have avoided this swollen face if she, you know, did any kind of research. Nothing like making yourself a victim is there though.

Not that I totally disagree, I think the world is being used as the trial run for the validity and safety of the newly-designated-as-vaccines vaccines. I am the ‘unvaccinated’ and believe me that was an ongoing argument with Matthew Good. But I’ll save that for another day.

I just think Hayley’s puffy face incident was totally avoidable by her. At least she got a shocking photo, and drama to post for more clicks and likes.

By the time 2022 rolled in, most of Hayley’s super supporters had abandoned her – for her vaccine posts – and she started to hide a lot of her Instagram.

She switched to Twitter for her vaccine and government conspiracy posts.

By May 2023, her Instagram is wiped, and only a few new “model” shots are present.

I hope she has found some peace in her life.

I still don’t think this was anymore than a really shitty relationship, and a really shitty breakup. In fact, after reviewing all of this site – I think Hayley might have been duped by another woman (or two) into launching a MeToo campaign. Theories.

For my part – I willingly became some weird part of all.

I defended Matt when I saw the February 2021 news story. I tried to get the stories from the women – in support of them. Discovered that is all seemed suspect. Was then targeted and Hayley attempted to cancel me. Which lead to me talking with Matthew about everything and creating this site. Amazing isn’t it how things happen, consequences for your choices in life. What a journey.

But best wishes.

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