2021 Feb 11 – Response to the News

Local News, Not So Global

I saw the Global News article on February 11, 2021. I commented on my Facebook about it.

I revised my support of Hayley M on April 13th 2021 – immediately after the events on the April 12th, 2021 when she accused me of being a spy for the Good family.

I don’t doubt that having a full on relationship with Matthew Good is a mentally emotionally exhausting thing, and I don’t doubt Hayley felt betrayed by his cheating actions, and betrayed by his words. I have the greatest sympathies for anyone that bravely went into a relationship with him.

No one denies she had a relationship.

Heck, I have the greatest sympathies for anyone that bravely went through a relationship with me!

This was my original post:

In the comments you can see this following bit of conversation. It is between myself and Tracey W – she is mother to Raymi The Minx – the blogger.

We are discussing the situation and I mention my opinion that Matthew Good has sex addiction.

Matt disagrees with my assessment of him. Which is fair. I haven’t had that deep connection with him that I would assume someone like his ex-wives would have. I don’t profess too.

I do have a uniquely different type of history with the man that revolves around sex and friendship.


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I still hope everyone finds peace.

Sometimes you gotta rip open a wound to let in the oxygen, to let it really heal instead of letting it fester forever. Some days you gotta just own your own shit! Burning the ground makes its future fertile.

I had also posted the statement defending Matt on my old (now deleted) Public Instagram account and Twitter.


Chill, A Little Too Much Too Much

After the month in the Facebook Group (March 12, 2021 to April 12, 2021) and looking into the major accusations against Matthew and coming up very short, and then specially after the attacks on my character by Hayley M and her followers – that occurred after they unjustly kicked me out April 12th, 2021 – I publicly responded to her letter to me – on my now deleted Twitter account.

When I did, Matthew Good reached out to me.

We spoke over the course of April 14th, 2021 to February 4th, 2022.

This site did explore the whole fiasco.

I am not sure if I will mention a lot of it (again) in detail – particularly the MANY stories from the many women that came forward to complain about Matthew’s behaviour. I revised the site to be a memoir. However, given that those events (regarding the Facebook group and the attacks on my character and their attempt to cancel me) are now a part of my existence, some will be mentioned.

I will say, I now joke to other male friends, that they shouldn’t get MeToo-ed because after publicly defending Matt, I have learned my lesson. But nah, I would defend people, that’s what I do.

One night, in 2007 probably, I was at The Roxy with Paul (now father of my child) and our friend a hair dresser named Michelle. We were standing beside the back bar, but not by the line up for drinks. Closer to the dance floor side of the band stage area. This drunk man stood in front of us staring at us two women, and I politely pointed out where the drink line up was, in case that was what he was looking for. He didn’t leave. I guess Michelle smiled at him funny, and this total stranger, this dude, slapped her across the face. I lost it.

I kicked him in the groin, and began punching him in the head and face. He fell to the floor. The bouncer was there in a quick flash and helped Paul pull me off the guy, who was now on the ground taking my beating. They threw him out for hitting a woman. The bar tender bought me a drink.

That’s what I do, I defend people.

I am chill. Very chill.

Until I am not.


Originally updated December 31, 2021 Updated January 22, 2023